More on life!!!!!

I've always wondered about life and why it is how it is........we do not have control over our lives but we do have the liberty to choose.....the decisions we make today about anything be it about our career or choosing your family over someone or making the right kind of friends go a long way in determining the kind of future we will have....I have learnt alot from my everyday experiences be it the little things we do everyday...we learn everyday.We are not defined by the easy times but defined by the hard times.In life there are no problems its just the way we look at it .If I think I have a problem then i will have a problem ...there is always a solution to every problem and most people spend most of their time thinking and worrying about the problems rather than finding a solution to it...life is full of surprises and unpredictable.Sometimes the surprises are good and sometimes not so good..but should that effect you.Every person is an individual with unique qualities and each and every person I've come across in life has thought me something valuable .I may not use it but its there and I am who I am coz of all the people in my life