Why a separate telangana?

The one month long turmoil in city really got me to think...initially i had a different opinion .I thought having a separate state would make no difference and i thought it was all a political gimmick ,but when I actually read the history of telangana i realised that a separation is important maybe for people living in Hyderabad it wouldn't make much of a difference but demographically 9 out of 10 districts in Telangana region of Andhra Pradesh are recogized by the Government of India as Backward. According to the Backword Regions Grant Fund 2009-10, 13 districts are located in Andhra Pradesh, 9 are from Telangana and the rest from other regions.Now every state gets funds from the centre and that has to be used for the states welfare .If we have a separate telangana..the state would get separate funds as a state which can be utilised for development.Now will having a separate state alone solve the problem of regional backwardness...No.Separation is not the only solution we would need good leaders as well who are genuinely interested in public welfare and would keep up their word.

There is alot you can learn from children.

Children teach us how to be happy without reason,to always be busy with something,to demand something you really want with all your might and strength ,they teach us to love unconditionally.Most of all they are happy with the little things in life which most of us i guess are not.
Just the other day there was this lil girl who came to me at one of the christmas celebrations and said in her cute lil voice "i didnt get a gift"
We were completely out of gifts so i gave her a balloon and she smiled at me and said "thank u didi" and kissed me.
One thing I learnt from this was to be happy with lil things in life coz beauty of life exist in these lil moments...

The Indian Navy

The Navy has always fascinated me from the time I was a lil girl.This Is my one of my favourite videos ..Its really sad i couldn't make it but the navy will always be one of the things i will always be passionate about

Marriages are made in heaven and weddings in hotels

Marriage and wedding may have the same meaning in any dictionary but I would like to introduce you to what I think about the two words .
Marriage as anyone would define is a union of two souls who take vows "till death do us apart"
Weddings on the other hand mean the same but I would like to make a slight change ..weddings now-a-days i would say is more about having an extravagant ceremony, more like show of wealth and status...(which suggests y i titled this post weddings are made in hotels) and can't believe there are shows like the big fat wedding and likes ,which do nothing but make you feel bad ...not that I am saying its not good to have a lavish wedding but I feel there are millions of people who don't even get a morsel of food.Weddings are a once in a lifetime opportunity and it should be made memorable coz its the only day you get to lead a fairytale life .How many Of these couples end up living happily ever after like the happy endings of fairy tales..I know life isn't a fairy tale but statistics state that divorce cases have increased over the past few years...are "We" the younger generation so clueless about our lives or are we so caught up with our lives and careers that we have no time to make the right choice .Life in a bustling city does make it difficult .But do we as young people understand the importance of the age old institution called "marriage".With more and more money pouring in and youngsters earning too much too early marriages have now become weddings in the best hotels.Weddings have now become more about the dress ,the bridesmaids ,the venue ,cuisines rather than the love of the couple or the presence of near and dear ..Has love lost its essence in marriage? I do not know ..Maybe some do fall in love .........