More on life!!!!!

I've always wondered about life and why it is how it is........we do not have control over our lives but we do have the liberty to choose.....the decisions we make today about anything be it about our career or choosing your family over someone or making the right kind of friends go a long way in determining the kind of future we will have....I have learnt alot from my everyday experiences be it the little things we do everyday...we learn everyday.We are not defined by the easy times but defined by the hard times.In life there are no problems its just the way we look at it .If I think I have a problem then i will have a problem ...there is always a solution to every problem and most people spend most of their time thinking and worrying about the problems rather than finding a solution to it...life is full of surprises and unpredictable.Sometimes the surprises are good and sometimes not so good..but should that effect you.Every person is an individual with unique qualities and each and every person I've come across in life has thought me something valuable .I may not use it but its there and I am who I am coz of all the people in my life

Pretty girls and make up rooms

The restrooms and make up rooms convert into gossip chambers ..very lil did i know about this when i passed out from school..but college changed everything ..Lunch time is usually when most girls do what they are best at ...bitching.They get together to have meaningless talk to hate someone.Some call it healthy bitching .Healthy because they say it gives scope for them to connect and improve relationships with people who dislike the same person.I wonder if that is something to be proud of.I am not against this coz I most of the times am a part of it by which I dont mean that I bitch but yes I listen which I think in a way encourages others to bitch.I somehow never have the guts to oppose.Yea sometimes I play diplomat and I guess it is important to be one these days.While men are vehement about the latest gadgets or a cricket match women love gossip which is why they say men are from mars and women from venus.Not all women gossip but most of them do consciously or unconsciously.Gossip is a form of entertainment for us women and there is nothing wrong about it.

That's how it is

Not always do things go our way and not always does everyone we come across like us..and its ok Everybody doesn't have to like me.In our journey called life we come accross many people some end up as friends,some you don't like,some you bear just because you have no choice ,some touch your hearts,some you admire and some become really special and important and some teach you the most important lessons in life.
One thing I have learnt is to always keep your good friends close .Its very important to have good friends who you can vouch on any day.People will hurt you but its ok you don't have to get dissappointed and dejected.Life is to short to be taken seriously we should enjoy every moment.We should learn to be happy with what we have and appreciate the little things that happen to us every day that's one thing people fail to do.Most of life's important lessons are learnt the hard way so we should never be afraid of taking risks.Do everything that makes you happy.Travel ,read ,sing ,dance,fall in love life is about all these little pleasures.So make the most of it